What’s the worst that could happen? That’s a genuine question. I am a religious person, a religious professional, in fact. While no two people agree completely about any religion, even if we assume that I am in a different bucket of beliefs about religion (or anything else) than you are, what is going to happen if you “risk” meeting with me to find out if I can or cannot be of help to you or your loved one(s)?
No Worse Off
If I can’t help then you are no worse off than before the meeting except a few dollars? Believe me, I’m not one to minimize the value of a dollar or even your time (or mine). However, when I hold the amount of time and money we are talking about against the pain your family is experiencing and the happiness that could be straight ahead … Well, I think you will agree, any amount of time and almost any amount of money is worth even the possibility of a remedy.
win For Them
What is then that actually stands in your way of accepting the help that is so plainly being offered to you?
Whatever the reasons, fears, obstructions, norms, all the things that you have been taught … that might be keeping you from trying this one thing that could, that just might be able to help you … You have got to overcome what is keeping you from doing whatever it takes to get to the other side of this family struggle. You don’t have to do anything for me. You know who it’s for. It’s for everyone in your family, yourself included, that is impacted by this logjam.
Happiness Potential
While no relationship is “perfect” and life will, thank goodness, always keep surprising us with new things to see and learn, your family can generally be happy! Joy, laughter, smiles and relaxation are no pipe dream for human families, including yours.
You do not have to just dream about being proud of your kids and happy with them. In almost every case, children want to look forward to being with their parents, they want to come home. If they have kids, they want those kids to know (and like!) their grandparents.
Don’t let what you think about me, “people like me,” or what anyone thinks keep you from building a great, caring family. Start feeling better today and get help today at skatiejustice.com.
